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WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?

Candice Bradley Nedra Glover Tawwab

By the influential relationship therapist and bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, this story will help young kids learn to express their own needs rather than people-pleasing.
Avery loves to make people happyso much so that she often ignores her own wants and needs. If a friend's favorite color is yellow, she always gives that friend the yellow marker. If someone wants PB&J for lunch, she gives up her own sandwich.

Now, her birthday is coming up and she's having trouble deciding what to do for her party. She knows her friends would love going to an amusement park, so maybe she should ignore the fact that the rides make her feel sick. Her brother loves superheroes, so she's considering having a superhero party. Luckily, her friends help her realize it's OK to do what makes you happyespecially on your own special day. Her birthday party is her best one yet!

Nedra Glover Tawwab, a licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert, has practiced relationship therapy for twelve years and is the founder and owner of the group therapy practice Kaleidoscope Counseling. She has been recently featured in The New York Times, The Guardian, Psychology Today, Self, and Vice, and she has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Don't Keep Your Day Job, Do the Thing, and Therapy for Black Girls. Tawwab runs a popular Instagram account where she shares practices, tools, and reflections for mental health and hosts weekly Q&As about boundaries and relationships. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family.

Candice Bradley is a self-taught illustrator from the San Francisco Bay Area. Her passion for storytelling in all its various forms has led to her most recent studies of Film and TV at NYU's Tisch School of Arts. She has illustrated several previous picture books.
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Published 2025-09-23 by Rocky Pond Books

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Cast in soothing shades, Bradley's airbrush-like digital renderings faithfully match the text, while Glover Tawwab reiteratively conveys the story's message: 'Thinking about others is kind, and so is thinking about yourself.

Licensed therapist and bestselling author Tawwab offers words of wisdom to young people-pleasers.Bradley's generous use of pastels softens the turmoil that Avery faces while also employing fuzzy-edged thought bubbles to highlight her introspection. Tawwab includes a note to caregivers at the end to help kids find their own voices. Guiding questions, affirmations, and simple scripts will help children and adults become more comfortable with growing their own self-confidence. Gentle guidance for kids seeking to stay true to themselves.