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TOGETHER

Vivek H. Murthy

The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World

This book is intended to empower readers to recognize loneliness and its related feelings, and it will equip them with strategies to stave off loneliness and rebuild connection. It is also a reflection on how we can build a more connected, less lonely world - and why this stands as one of the most urgent challenges of our time.
Entering the field of internal medicine following medical school, Vivek Murthy expected that most of his time would be spent caring for patients with diabetes, high blood pressure, infections, and cancer. But chronic loneliness became the most common pathology that he encountered as a physician. As Surgeon General, he traveled around speaking with people about their health and their lives. Behind the stories of struggles with addiction, violence, heart disease, and pain were threads of loneliness rarely disclosed at first that became more and more prominent as these conversations progressed. The world has recently woken up to the health dangers of this epidemic, but what we haven't begun to reckon with is why we perceive it with such harsh judgement. It's one thing to feel lonely, but an entirely different thing when we think we have failed because we feel lonely. It's almost as though this condition has its own locking-in mechanism. One that is both social and moraland one that needs to be destroyed.

In TOGETHER, former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy concludes that reducing loneliness and improving social connection will require us to change our perception of loneliness and the underlying factors that are driving its rise. The answer is buried deep in the evolutionary history of human beings. Loneliness, it turns out, is more than an isolated feeling. It's a biological warning sign that tells us that an ingredient critical to our safety and survivalsocial connectionis missing. Like hunger pangs or thirst, loneliness reflects a rational response. However, we don't feel ashamed to admit that we are hungry or thirsty in the moment. Herein lies a key to addressing loneliness that is often missed: yes, infrequent or short-lived loneliness is common and often resolves on its own. But if we ignore it at this stage, we lose the opportunity to develop our anti-loneliness skills and toolbox for when it comes back. By becoming practiced at addressing loneliness early, we can not only prevent this progression but we can also equip ourselves with the experience and skills needed to counteract loneliness at all stages.

Dr. Vivek H. Murthy is the former Surgeon General of the Obama administration. He is a physician, researcher, public health expert. Dr. Murthy received his M.D. from Yale. He cared for thousands of patients and trained hundreds of medical students. His writings have been published in leading medical journals, newspapers, and magazine, and his work has been covered extensively in regional, national, and international media. He is the recipient of numerous awards, commendations, and honorary degrees.
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Published 2020-04-28 by Harper Wave

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Deep understandings to help face one of the compelling questions of our time. And tender hopes and genuine wisdom in answer.

In our age of shuttered Main Streets, dying malls, and the proliferation of weak links on social media, we're missing vital personal connections. In Together Dr. Vivek Murthy brilliantly diagnoses what ails us in our personal lives and in society, and offers a prescription for enriching each other's lives - and our own.

In Together, Vivek Murthy has put his finger on an important and under-recognized health hazard. By identifying loneliness as a key factor underpinning so many mental and physical illnesses, he opens the door to acceptance and offers much-needed solutions. We need Murthy's book now more than ever.

article: Are You Lonely? You're Not Alone.: A new book from former U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy explains why many Americans feel lonely, and what we can do about it... Read more...

An invisible crisis plagues America today. It's responsible for more sickness, suffering and death than almost anything else. It is loneliness. It is often underneath addiction, suicide and even obesity. The antidote is masterfully explored by Former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy in Together. The science is clear - the most powerful force to heal is love and connection. Community is medicine. With clarity and heart-warming insight Dr. Murthy illuminates the problem and the solution.

This powerful and important book looks at loneliness as a public health issue. Vivek Murthy shows why loneliness evolved in our species, how it can be harmful, why it's on the rise today, and what we can do about it. By creating better connections with our friends and our communities, we can lead healthier lives and helps our friends be healthier.

article about Vivek's work on 'loneliness' : You Might Be Feeling Lonely and Not Even Know It... Read more...

Together is at #14 on the New York Times Best Seller list in nonfiction!

Elemental caught up with Murthy ahead of his book's April 28 publication to talk about staying healthy and connected in lonely times, the impact of the virus on the medical profession, and how public health experts continue to feel muzzled. Read more...

Here is a doctor who identifies loneliness as a major killer. In this moving and well-evidenced book, he shows how the deadly effects take hold and what we can all do to defeat this scourge of modern society.

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article about Vivek's work on 'loneliness' : Loneliness In The Workplace... Read more...

TOGETHER is a brave and beautiful exploration of the epidemic of loneliness that is a feature of modern living. Vivek Murthy brings his medical expertise, his considerable travels and his intellectual curiosity to explore what is clearly a new frontier, one that has been previously ignored. The solutions he offers are necessary and gratifying both for us as individuals, but as a society.

Dr. Vivek Murthy has been named to the Biden-Harris Transition's Covid-19 Advisory Board! Read more...

His gentle approach to the topic has profound implications for both individual health care and community wellness.

Video interview with Dr. Vivek Murthy Read more...

This surgeon general isn't here to warn us about smoking. He's on a mission to fight loneliness and show us what it takes to build community and connection. With a compelling narrative, rigorous evidence, and a timely call to action, this book is a good omen for our mental health and social well-being.

Some books enlighten, but others stun. TOGETHER is a stunner. It made me rethink much of what I believe about physical health, public policy, and the human condition. By revealing America's epidemic of loneliness - and then offering an array of remedies for the condition - Murthy has done a great service, and made TOGETHER the most important book you'll read this year.

One of our most loved surgeon generals, Murthy has a big heart and a big message. We have a massive, deadly epidemic hidden in plain sight: loneliness. It is as harmful to health as smoking and far more common. And as his gripping stories of the science and suffering makes clear, we can do something about it. Together is fascinating, moving, and essential reading.

... Einsamkeit ist ansteckend. Wer sich für längere Zeit einsam fühlt, verändert häufig sein Verhalten, zieht sich zurück, wird vorsichtiger, vielleicht auch reizbarer und ruppig. Andere Menschen spüren die Veränderung und fühlen sich zurückgewiesen. Ihnen fehlt nun der Partner, Freund oder Kollege, den sie früher hatten, sie vermissen die Nähe und verhalten sich ebenfalls defensiver was wiederum auf ihr Umfeld abfärben kann. Die Einsamkeit breitet sich aus.

Vivek Murthy reminds us that our national conversation about medicine has been too narrowly focused on hospitals, doctors and drugs--and not enough on the human connections that sustain us. "Together" stands with Atul Gawande's classic, "Being Mortal."

Atlantic's coronavirus coverage - with Vivek H. Murphy and Alice T. Chen: The Coronavirus Could Cause a Social Recession - Economic slowdowns are easy to measure, but the lingering damage to communal bonds may be no less harmful... Read more...

TOGETHER is one of Amazon's Best Book of April Read more...

Sometimes the most obvious thing is the hardest to see. Thank goodness we have Dr Vivek Murthy to light the way towards understanding loneliness and its dark comers. This book is a gift for us all.

...As we consider what the world will look like after stay-at-home orders expire, Murthy's timely and thoughtful book serves as an important reminder that there's really only one way to rebuild: together. Read more...

impressive article on Murthy's timeliness with TOGETHER... Read more...

Murthy's book makes a powerful case for the role of community and human connection in medicine. He provides cogent and compassionate insights about how to heal the art of healing.

Profound, empathic, ultra-savvy about the plight of disconnect and the power of human connection This book is a balm and an inspiration - offering a convincing diagnosis of a public health epidemic of loneliness in our time, and also a well-articulated etiology, prognosis, and treatment plan based on kindness and caring for each other, as well as uplifting examples of their widespread embodiment.

Interview with author on "Before coronavirus we were dying of loneliness. Can a pandemic help America heal?"... Read more...

I love both the message and the messenger of this brilliant book. Listen to what Vivek Murthy has to say about social connection--and then take his advice. It's exactly what the doctor ordered.

If we could put Together in a capsule, it would be a blockbuster drug. Dr. Murthy brilliantly unpacks the foundations of loneliness and the science of why it's so toxic to both our health and longevity. Then, he offers a compelling prescription for better connecting with our community, friends and family so we elude loneliness to live our best, longest life.

A former U.S. Surgeon General makes the surprising case that an epidemic of loneliness is among the gravest health crises currently facing the country. ... Drawing from real-life initiatives across the world, Murthy offers a road map to a future that is less stifling than a purely collectivist culture and less isolating than an individualistic one, in which kindness and care for others become the reigning principles of American society.