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NEVER SIMPLE

Liz Scheier

A Memoir

NEVER SIMPLE is a darkly funny and devastating memoir of Scheier's growing up in '90s Manhattan with a mentally ill single parent who constructs a world of lies so elaborate that it's less a childhood and more a couple decades of gaslighting. Once Liz discovers that the father who died before she was born is an entirely fictional character created by her mother, the rest of the deception tumbles down as she follows tenuous links to the truth.

This is also a beautifully-written, multi-layered examination of how we create family and what we pass on. As an egg donor, Liz is drawn into a network that is nearly as shadowy and deceptive about genetics as her mother is. As a parent herself, what does she tell her children about family history when she doesn't know what's real? For that matter, how much does she tell them about the horrifying things she does know?

With NEVER SIMPLE, Liz Scheier walks toe-to-toe with the great ur-memoirs THE GLASS CASTLE and THE LIAR'S CLUB. Scheier's prose has a coruscating energy that captures and transfixes the reader as much as it tells a story. If we are unable to look away from the car-crash that is her early life, we are at least given something extraordinary to look at, and as Scheier then pitches us into the fires of her own self-transformation, we are grandly entertained - and made to think - at every turn.

Liz Scheier is a former Penguin Random House editor (at Bantam and both the Roc and Del Rey science fiction imprints) who also worked at B&N and Amazon before moving to Washington, DC. She is the mother of two and a feature writer and reviewer for Publisher's Weekly.
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Published 2022-03-01 by Henry Holt

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“Scheier writes a compelling memoir that is hard to put down. Written in decisive prose, Scheier does not coddle herself or her mother. Neither does she vilify or glorify anyone.”

“Scheier writes, “People suffering from borderline personality disorder live in a world on fire.” In crisp and commanding prose, she traces how, until her mother's death in 2019, that fire swept through her own life—her childhood enduring Judith's “all-consuming wrath,” her own suicide attempts as a teen, later selling her eggs to keep her aging mother from becoming homeless.” (starred review)

“A riveting and poignant memoir of lies, compassion, and discovery. I couldn't put it down.” ?Jenny Lawson, New York Times bestselling author of Broken, Furiously Happy, and Let's Pretend This Never Happened “Liz Scheier's beautiful book is a testament to the undeniable, indestructible love between a mother and a daughter. In telling her story she brings enormous sympathy to an exceedingly complicated relationship, and thus a clearer understanding for all of us with mothers. It's a meditation on the subject of how much fear and dread can be tolerated by a loving heart. I adored it.” ?Isaac Mizrahi “The complexities of a mother/daughter relationship are laid bare in this darkly funny, and utterly shattering memoir. Liz Scheier writes with shocking beauty and grace, never once turning her back on the truth. Never Simple is a brilliant, triumphant debut by a writer of significant literary talent.” ?Augusten Burroughs, author of Running With Scissors and Toil & Trouble “Possibly the most brilliant, evocative, devastating memoir of what it is like to be the daughter of a mother with Borderline Personality Disorder, Liz Scheier's story is also one of resilience and compassion. The questions it asks are ones that every surviving adult child of a profoundly mentally ill parent grapples with: how strong is the maternal thread that enables the survivor to care for an abusive mother even when they become a danger to their world and everyone in it? Is it possible for those left behind to ever heal? Staggering, at turns horrifying and life-giving, Never Simple left me gasping for breath.” ?Elissa Altman, author of Motherland