HOW TO GROW UP

Michelle Tea makes her major publishing debut with a boldly honest memoir about her stumbling journey toward the life of a Bonafide Grown-Up.

As an aspiring young writer in San Francisco, Michelle Tea lived in a scuzzy communal house; she drank, smoked, snorted anything she got her hands on; she toiled for the minimum wage; and she dated men and women, and sometimes both at once. But between hangovers and dead-end jobs, she scrawled in notebooks and organized dive bar poetry readings, working to make her literary dreams real.

In How to Grow Up, Tea shares her awkward stumble towards the life of a Bonafide Grown-Up: healthy, responsible, self-aware, stable. She writes about passion, about her fraught relationship with money, about adoring Barney’s while shopping at thrift stores, about breakups and the fertile ground between relationships, about roommates and rent, and about being superstitious (“why not, it imbues this harsh world of ours with a bit of magic.”) At once heartwarming and darkly comic, How to Grow Up proves that the road less traveled may be a difficult one, but if you embrace life’s uncertainty and dust yourself off after every screw up, slowly but surely you just might make it to adulthood.

Michelle Tea writes for The Believer, Nerve.com, and xoJane.com. She is incredibly well-connected and counts writers like Dave Eggers, Mary Gaitskill, Mary Roach, and Sherman Alexie as friends and fans. A longtime fixture in the LGBTQ literary scene, Michelle Tea lives in San Francisco with her partner Dashiell and their dog, Charlie.