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HE/SHE/THEY

Schuyler Bailar

How We Talk About Gender and Why It Matters

Go?to expert on gender identity, Schuyler Bailar, offers an essential, urgent guide that changes the conversation about gender identity and how we talk about it. HE/SHE/THEY uses storytelling and the art of conversation to give us the fundamental language and context of gender so that we can meet people where they are and pave the way to understanding, acceptance, and inclusion.
Anti-transgender legislation is being introduced in state governments around the United States in record-breaking numbers. Trans people are under attack in sports, healthcare, school curriculum, bathrooms, bars, and nearly every walk of life. He/She/They clearly and compassionately addresses fundamental topics, from why being transgender is not a choice and why pronouns are important, to more complex issues including how gender-affirming healthcare can be lifesaving and why allowing trans youth to play sports is good for all kids. With a relatable narrative rooted in facts, science, and history, Schuyler helps restore common sense and humanity to a discussion that continues to be divisively coopted and deceptively politicized.

Schuyler Bailar didn't set out to be an activist, but his very public transition to the Harvard men's swim team put him in the spotlight. His choice to be open about his transition and share his experience has touched people around the world. His plain-spoken education has evolved into tireless advocacy for inclusion and collective liberation. In He/She/They, Schuyler uses storytelling and the art of conversation to give us the essential language and context of gender, meeting everyone where they are and paving the way for understanding, acceptance, and, most importantly: connection.

He/She/They is more than a book on allyship; it also speaks to trans folks directly, answering the question, "does it get better?" with a resounding yes, celebrating radical trans joy. Myth-busting, affirming, compassionate, and fierce, HE/SHE/THEY is an important, essential, urgent, and, as Schuyler points out, potentially life-saving book that will not only change the conversation about gender identity and how we talk about it; it will help us get the conversation started in the first place.

Schuyler Bailar (he/him) an educator, author, and advocate. He is also the first transgender athlete to compete in any sport on an NCAA Division 1 men's team. Schuyler's exemplary work has earned him numerous honors including NYC Pride Grand Marshall, the Out 100, LGBTQ Nation's Instagram Advocate of the year, and the Harvard Director's Award. In addition to being one of the top LGBTQ+ educators and advocates, Schuyler is a leading DEI speaker and advisor who has been featured in countless media outlets, including 60 Minutes and The Washington Post. He holds a degree in Cognitive Neuroscience and Evolutionary Psychology from Harvard, and works in four research labs focusing in clinical psychology and public health.
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Published 2023-10-17 by Hachette Go

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Published 2023-10-17 by Hachette Go

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Interview with Lia Thomas - Lia Thomas says she's finally at peace with herself, finding support: Thomas said she is still grappling with being one of the most talked about athletes in the country, but has found support with Schuyler Bailar, the first trans-man to compete in any NCAA D1 sport. Read more...

NYC's Pride March is this weekend, and Schuyler will be leading the parade as one of the grand marshalls, a big honor! (June 23, 2022) Read more...

UK: Penguin Life UK

Schuyler was the first trans person I ever followed on social media. He/She/They reminded me of why I hit that follow button years ago - because of Schuyler's ability to speak on gender in non-intimidating ways. I wish I had this book to guide my own journey years ago, but I am so glad it exists now. We need it!

He/She/They by Schuyler Bailar is an incredible book and resource for all who want to understand gender & transness based off of someone who has lived it. Schuyler is an activist, athlete, educator, and now writer! This book is informative, fabulous to read, and leaves the reader with information, joy and proactive ways to get involved in what is one of the most important human rights conversations of our time. I love this book & Schuyler, you will too!

Schuyler speaks out against FINA ban Read more...

Debunking Myths about Transgender Athletes: We sat down with Schuyler Bailar, the first openly transgender NCAA Division I athlete, to break down several myths about transgender athletes, specifically transgender female athletes, that have gained wide-spread traction amid the surge in transgender sports-bans in state legislatures... Read more...

ABC Nightline - Most transgender women barred from high-level international swimming competitions Read more...

Schuyler Bailar, a Harvard alum who was the first trans athlete to compete in NCAA Division I, says the pushback against trans athletes in sports is fueled by ignorance and propaganda. Now, he teaches gender literacy and has to break through "knee-jerk reactions" and go deeper into the topic to help people understand. "I have changed lots of people's minds simply by reciting facts," Bailar says on LX News... Read more...

Trans Athlete Schuyler Bailar: "There Is No Such Thing As A Level Playing Field" - The discussion of transgender inclusion, specifically trans athletes competing in sports, has become ground zero in the culture wars around the country. Schuyler Bailar, the first openly trans NCAA Division 1 athlete who is also an educator and activist, joined the panel to discuss the controversy. Read more...

Schuyler's podcast recently launched - The interviews and topics discussed on the podcast are very much connected to HE/SHE/THEY... Read more...

Soul of a Nation Presents: Pride In the Kitchen - Actors Johnathan Bennett and Joshua Colley and trans advocate Schuyler Bailar hold a revealing conversation on parenting queer and trans children. Read more...