CALMING UPSET PEOPLE WITH EAR

The level of stress and conflict in today's world is higher than seen in decades and we all can use tools for managing these emotions. At the same time, there also appear to be more "high conflict " people who are preoccupied with blaming others and verbally venting or attacking those around them. These upset emotions and conflicts can often be calmed immediately through the use of a simple EAR Statement (TM), a method developed and refined by Bill Eddy over the past fifteen years and taught to hundreds of thousands of professionals and individuals. Following on the success of his widely-known BIFF Response® method and books, this new book by Bill Eddy on EAR Statements will come in handy in all kinds of upset situations: family conflicts, workplace disputes, neighbor controversies, and any other setting. A simple statement communicating empathy, attention and/or respect to an angry, sad, mentally ill, or any upset person at any time can work wonders in minutes. Yet it's not as easy as it looks. It takes practice and this book gives over twenty examples of applying this method in families, communities, customer relations, volunteer organizations, public service, politics, business, police encounters, racial conflicts, schools, mental health settings, and others. Empathy, attention and respect are what all people are looking for, especially when upset or in a conflict. This book will give you the details of how to calm upset people with EAR every day.

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. Author of 20+ books, he is co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He has successfully mediated thousands of cases over his 40-year career and he created the New Ways for Mediation method and has been teaching it to mediators worldwide.